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5 правил: как не реагировать на негатив

Мы всю жизнь сталкиваемся с негативом вокруг: кто-то нахамит, кто-то толкнет, кто-то напишет негативные комментарии под нашими фото, и со всеми из них, конечно, хочется разобраться. Только вот, разобравшись, мы получаем самообвинение и еще больше расстраиваемся.

Сегодня мы вам расскажем, как правильно реагировать на негатив.

Правило №1: осознать, что уровень воспитания у всех разный

Нас всех воспитывали по-разному. Вы можете быть позитивным и добрым человеком, а ваш оппонент наоборот. Ему на подсознательном уровне может доставлять удовольствие обижать вас. Поэтому осознайте это и не давайте обидчику желаемое.

Правило №2: не поддаваться на провокации

Будда говорил, что пока мы никак не отреагировали на негатив, он остается с обидчиком. Это значит, что обидеть вас может только то, что вы приняли близко к сердцу.

Правило №3: деликатно отстаивайте свою точку зрения

Спокойное состояние — самый лучший путь к решению всех вопросов. Деликатно отстаивайте свои личные границы, а если все-таки кого-то обидели, то извинитесь перед человеком.

Правило №4: помните, что критика должна быть конструктивной

Если человек конструктивно дает вам комментарии, то не обижайтесь, а поблагодарите его за оказанный интерес. Но если же в дело вступает хейт, то попросите его не беспокоить и не читать вас.

Правило №5: оставайтесь в спокойном состоянии

Воспитывайте в себе чувство спокойствия и всегда помните о том, что любая ситуация нас чему-то учит.

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at HandleExceptions->handleError(8, 'fwrite(): write of 1749 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded', '/home/judo/public_html/vendor/monolog/monolog/src/Monolog/Handler/StreamHandler.php', 133, array('stream' => resource, 'record' => array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 15:21:22] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} ')))
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at StreamHandler->streamWrite(resource, array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 15:21:22] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in StreamHandler.php line 119
at StreamHandler->write(array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 15:21:22] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in AbstractProcessingHandler.php line 39
at AbstractProcessingHandler->handle(array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 15:21:22] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'PdyngLoxvrjp6eq...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in Logger.php line 344
at Logger->addRecord(400, object(ErrorException), array())in Logger.php line 712
at Logger->error(object(ErrorException), array())in Writer.php line 203
at Writer->writeLog('error', object(ErrorException), array())in Writer.php line 114
at Writer->error(object(ErrorException))in Handler.php line 71
at Handler->report(object(ErrorException))in Handler.php line 35
at Handler->report(object(ErrorException))in HandleExceptions.php line 81
at HandleExceptions->handleException(object(ErrorException))