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Простой способ вырастить ребёнка успешным и уверенным в себе, о котором многие родители забывают

Не жалей — от тебя не убудет

Для этого есть очень простой инструмент! Называется похвала. Да, детей нужно хвалить. Постоянно!

«Да, я бы похвалила, если бы он что-то хорошее сделал. Но пока нет повода…»

А его и не будет! Система не так устроена!

Представьте, что вы хотите вырастить цветок. Берём семена и закапываем в землю. Поливаем, они растут. А если мы будем ждать, пока они прорастут, для того, чтобы начать поливать? Вряд ли что-то вырастет. То же самое и с детьми.

Мы не ждём, пока ребёнок сделает что-то хорошее. Мы сами ищем повод его похвалить.

Пошёл в магазин за хлебом, а вернулся с бутылкой колы, да ещё и сдачу потерял.

«Какой ты у мамы молодец! В магазин сходил. Как приятно, что ты помогаешь по дому».

После нескольких раз, может уже и сам захочет в магазин ходить. Без угроз и упрашиваний.

«Но ведь это несправедливо! Он глупости делает, а я его ещё и хвалить за это должна?»

Ну, во-первых, за глупости не хвалим. Находим в ситуации хоть песчинку позитива и хвалим только за нее. А во-вторых, когда ребёнок был маленький, вы же ему памперс меняли. Тоже несправедливо было! Но вы же не говорили: «Он испачкал, пусть сам за собой и убирает».

В воспитании детей мы руководствуемся вопросами: помогает — не помогает.

Хотите быть суперродителями? Запишите в свой распорядок дня хвалить ребёнка минимум 5 раз в день!

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in StreamHandler.php line 133
at HandleExceptions->handleError(8, 'fwrite(): write of 1749 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded', '/home/judo/public_html/vendor/monolog/monolog/src/Monolog/Handler/StreamHandler.php', 133, array('stream' => resource, 'record' => array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 18:42:14] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} ')))
at fwrite(resource, '[2025-04-20 18:42:14] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} ')in StreamHandler.php line 133
at StreamHandler->streamWrite(resource, array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 18:42:14] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in StreamHandler.php line 119
at StreamHandler->write(array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 18:42:14] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in AbstractProcessingHandler.php line 39
at AbstractProcessingHandler->handle(array('message' => 'ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main}', 'context' => array(), 'level' => 400, 'level_name' => 'ERROR', 'channel' => 'local', 'datetime' => object(DateTime), 'extra' => array(), 'formatted' => '[2025-04-20 18:42:14] local.ERROR: ErrorException: file_put_contents(): write of 204 bytes failed with errno=122 Disk quota exceeded in /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:122Stack trace:#0 [internal function]: Illuminate\\Foundation\\Bootstrap\\HandleExceptions->handleError(8, \'file_put_conten...\', \'/home/judo/publ...\', 122, Array)#1 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php(122): file_put_contents(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', 2)#2 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/FileSessionHandler.php(83): Illuminate\\Filesystem\\Filesystem->put(\'/home/judo/publ...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\', true)#3 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php(128): Illuminate\\Session\\FileSessionHandler->write(\'qOJOZ0I1Qdz1pX0...\', \'a:4:{s:6:"_toke...\')#4 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php(88): Illuminate\\Session\\Store->save()#5 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(218): Illuminate\\Session\\Middleware\\StartSession->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#6 /home/judo/public_html/vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Foundation/Http/Kernel.php(189): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminateMiddleware(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#7 /home/judo/public_html/public/index.php(58): Illuminate\\Foundation\\Http\\Kernel->terminate(Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Request), Object(Illuminate\\Http\\Response))#8 /home/judo/public_html/server.php(21): require_once(\'/home/judo/publ...\')#9 {main} '))in Logger.php line 344
at Logger->addRecord(400, object(ErrorException), array())in Logger.php line 712
at Logger->error(object(ErrorException), array())in Writer.php line 203
at Writer->writeLog('error', object(ErrorException), array())in Writer.php line 114
at Writer->error(object(ErrorException))in Handler.php line 71
at Handler->report(object(ErrorException))in Handler.php line 35
at Handler->report(object(ErrorException))in HandleExceptions.php line 81
at HandleExceptions->handleException(object(ErrorException))